My daughter turned 18 two days ago. Legally she’s an adult now but she’ll always be my baby. One who’s never liked a big fuss or being the centre of attention but this weekend that’s what she was.
On Friday night we drove to Mansfield, where she’s worked casually at a horse trail riding company for the past couple of years. Upon finding out she was turning 18 they organised a birthday dinner celebration with all the people she’s worked with up there.


What followed was a lovely night with a group of people who have embraced her with open arms. A touching speech by Laura, owner of the horse trail riding company, made me realise how loved she’s become up there. And how right we were to put our trust in them.
Her other boss Johno (who also celebrated his birthday on the same day) invited us all to stay overnight at his spectacular property. The ‘kids’ opted to sleep out in their swags.
Back at home the next day we prepared for our own celebration. Nothing fancy or too crazy, she didn’t want a large party. Just her closest friends around a camp fire.
She had a great night. Music, laughter, drinks and pizza, chocolate moose birthday cake … by the time her friends left light rain started to fall. We couldn’t have timed it better.
By 3am a storm arrived with fierce wind and rain. Thunder shook the house and crackling bolts of lightning lit up the sky. Harry ended up on our bed, a quivering mess of nerves.
Thank goodness they didn’t sleep out like she’d originally planned! The night had been perfect. We were all safe inside while Mother Nature put on a wild show outside.
Sometimes things happen for a reason. Sometimes we’re meant to be just where we are.
Wishing my wonderful daughter lots of love and happiness as she travels onwards.
And I wish you all a wonderful week ahead. Stay safe and keep enjoying the journey.
Congratulations for 18 years of motherhood ^_^
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Thank you! It’s a continuing journey. 🙂
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Yeaah.. ^_^
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Wish her happy birthday for 18 & all the best, congratulations,
have lot fun!!!
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Thanks so much. 🙂
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🙂
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Congratulations to the birthday girl, and to you as parents – Tash is clearly a girl to be proud of.
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She is indeed. 🙂 Thanks Suzy.
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A very Happy 18th Birthday to your daughter – a milestone in her life – and yours too! What a wonderful way to celebrate, surrounded by family and friends. She sounds like one secure, wise and grounded young lady. Warmest wishes to you both.
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18 is a wonderful age so much to experience . Congratulations on raising such a great young woman and I wish her a happy birthday
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Thanks Maria, aah, to be 18 again! 🙂
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Happy Belated Birthday to your daughter. My she grow with grace and wisdom. You must be so proud. That cake looks absolutely delicious. ❤
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We are very proud, thanks Lindsay. And yes, the cake was pretty damn scrummy! 🙂
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I hope you had a great and relaxing Sunday. 🙂
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It was good, very productive. Lots of cleaning up this morning after the storm but the yard needed a good spruce up anyway. Enjoy your Sunday. 🙂
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I hope the storm brought the rain that you need. Maybe it was nature’s way to get you to clean up the garden faster 🙂
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Haha Yeah, I think it was! And it worked. 🙂
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There’s something soothing about gardening too 🙂
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Very nice photographs and Happy B’day to your daughter.
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Thanks very much!
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That’s so wonderful. You have to be so happy that she has grown into such a lovely young woman with such good friends.
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We are happy, Wendy, thanks. Especially as she seems to have found her direction in life.
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Well done on being such a great Mum Miriam > Welcome to the next part 🙂
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Don’t know about great, but I do my best! 🙂 And yes, the journey continues.
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Happy Birthday Tash and best wishes for the coming years. We always think our children are wonderful, but it’s such a pleasure when others acknowledge how special they are. And thank goodness everyone slept inside overnight!
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Absolutely! There was lots of devastation throughout parts of Melbourne overnight. Thanks for your good wishes.
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Look at that cake! Happy Birthday to your daughter!
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Hey Paul, we had lots of pizza too! 🙂
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Hi Miriam, You made it 18 years, now for the next 18, It just get’s better, all my love to Birthday girl, you must be very proud
Brooke
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Thanks so much Brooke and yes, we are very proud. 🙂
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One proud Mama x
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Happy Birthday to your daughter! I went out partying last night and I can not handle it any more!!
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Hahaha You make me laugh. You and me both, I think. 🙂
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At 42, if I go out and “party”, it takes me a week to recover!! Lol
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Hahaha You and me both 🙂
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Wish Happy Birthday to Tash I loooove the photo where she kiss her beautiful horse! This was a a very nice post celebrating your lovely daughter! And congratulations to you Miriam to be a wonderful mom for her! ❤
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Lovely words, thank you Carolina. xo
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Happy birthday to Tash! looks like a lovely celebration. She will always be your baby.
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Yes she will, much as she rolls her eyes when I say it! Thanks Deb.
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What a lovely post and some great pictures. Congratulations to your daughter on her birthday with two wonderful parties!
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Thanks Diane. She’s one tired cookie tonight!
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I bet!
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What I’d give to be eighteen again!
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The things we would do so differently!! 😘
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Yeah, maybe. 🙂
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Amen to that!
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My son is turning 18 on July 6th. He doesn’t want a big fuss either. Just a few friends and lots of pizzas 🍕🍕🍕🍕🍕🍕🍕🍕🍕🍕🍕🍕🍕🍕
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Great minds think alike! Happy 18th in advance to your son! 🙂
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Happy birthday to your beautiful daughter. What a lovely way to celebrate it!
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Thank you Chez. She had a great weekend.
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I feel like I’ve barely come to terms with being a parent to an adult and yet in a matter of months I will no longer be able to say I’m the mother of three teenagers. I’ll be a mother of two teenagers and a twenty-year-old. It’s too wordy. Definitely not working for me.
Looks like a lovely event. It’s always a relief as a parent to know your kids are surrounded by good people.
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Oh yes, I couldn’t agree more. As for that age thing, remember you’re only as old as you feel. Hopefully, even with an almost twenty year old and two teenagers you still feel young at heart. At least some days! 🙂
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I’m still 23 in my head. (It explains the 5 pairs of Converse sneakers I own.)
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Hahaha 🙂 In my head I’m still 19. I even wrote a post about it. https://outanabout.com/2016/04/05/now-what-was-i-saying/
Cheers! 🙂
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Happy Be-lated Birthday Tash 🙂
You sure did have a party filled weekend! Wow! Looks like everyone had a great time and lots of FUN celebrating Tash’s 18th.
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Yes, it was a fun weekend, no doubt about it. And tiring! Thanks for your kind wishes Etta. 🙂
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Sounds so wonderful, Happy Birthday to your daughter and wishing her the best as she starts her life journey.
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Thanks so much Candice-Marie. 🙂
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Wishing her a very happy birthday. Convey my wish to her.
I also want to congratulate you for crossing the great milestone of responsibilities that is the18 years of motherhood.
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Thank you for that. Another three years and my son will hit that milestone too! 🙂
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Wishing her all the happiness she sets out for
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Thanks Issa 🙂
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Looks and sounds like a wonderful birthday celebration. Happy Birthday to her! And I have to add… that cake looks amazing!
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Thanks Sandra. And yeah, it was pretty damn good! 🙂
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Wow! 18 yrs old. I bet it felt like yesterday you had her in your arms as a baby. Happy Birthday to Tash and may God bless her with many wonderful times ahead! 🎂Is she planning to go away to college?
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It does seem like yesterday. Absolutely. 🙂 Thanks for your kind wishes. As for her future, possibly some studies ahead though her path and passion is in Agriculture and working on the land.
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Happy birthday, Tash. Have a fun-filled day. And congrats, Miriam. It’s not easy to be a mother. And there you won.
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You’re right there. Motherhood is not always easy and often challenging, but oh so rewarding. 🙂
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Wow! Thank you. It’s really rewarding and fulfilling. It’s an experience worth having. 🙂
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Happy Birthday Tash! Looks like it was a fabulous night.
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It was, thanks so much! 🙂
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Oh how lovely. Happy birthday to dear Tash. No matter how old they get, our babies remain exactly so in our hearts 🙂
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So very true. 🙂
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This may be a late greetings to your lovely daughter but I wish her more blessings and happiness! What a wonderful way to express your love to your child, I’m sure she felt its warmth. Have a great week!
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Never too late, thanks Amy. And yes, I wanted to record her milestone in some way and this seemed fitting. You have a great week ahead too. 🙂
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Wonderful! You must be so proud Miriam! 😊
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Thanks Nicole and yes, I am! 🙂
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Happy belated 18th Birthday!!! Probably doesn’t feel like it’s been 18 years, does it..:)
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Thanks George and you’re right. Seems like only yesterday she was carrying her little Tigger toy around everywhere. 🙂
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It does blow by us much too quickly..:)
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Happy Birthday Tash – safe and happy rides and drives. What lovely people at the horse place. Yes an that storm was a beauty very loud here. Good luck for the year ahead with Year 12. Is Tash doing Equine Studies at school ?
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Thanks Louise, they’re a great bunch of people up at Mansfield. And yes, that storm was fierce, so loud I thought our roof had been struck! Tash did her Equine Studies Cert 3 last year externally at TAFE, so already completed that part.
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What a lovely birthday. So happy for you. Hugs!
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And hugs back to you my friend. Hope you’re enjoying your holiday. 🙂
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Yes ma’am. Swam in the ocean all afternoon. Hung out around beach house this evening. Just finished eating freshly caught fish for supper. Yum.
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Sounds like heaven to me. Enjoy it all and soak up all that bliss! 🙂
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Yes ma’am! You’re here “with” me, you know. 🙂
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I know. 🙂
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And, your mum. I picture her sitting on a beach chair taking in the breeze…
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Oh, wouldn’t that be nice …
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Can you imagine how free she might feel, just hearing the ocean and feeling the salt and spray on her cheeks? Makes me think she’d be a little less stuck in her brain that seems to have taken her sideways… I’m going to keep picturing her here and sending those healing thoughts her way…
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You’re such a sweetie, thanks Jessica …
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Very Happy Birthday wishes 🙂
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Thank you kindly 🙂
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They grow up fast. Awesome looking cake. 🙂
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They sure do. As for that cake, long gone! 🙂
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Congratulations to all concerned
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Thank you Derrick.
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It sounds like you all had a wonderful weekend. Many happy returns to Tash.
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Wonderful, but tiring. Thanks Lindsey.
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Congratulations to Tash on entering the new level of her life. This level is definitely her biggest.
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Yes, definitely a big year of changes ahead.
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Happy birthday wishes to your daughter. Glad you all enjoyed the celebrations. Good luck to you both for this new phase of life. Letting go as our kids become adults isn’t always easy, but worthwhile 🙂
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Yeah, it’s all part of life isn’t it. Letting go.
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Happy Birthday to your Tash. Turning 18 is fun as I remember it well…well not so well.
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Yeah, it’s a bit fuzzy around the edges for me too … 🙂
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Happy Birthday Tash!
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Happy 18th birthday to Tash… May she always love life & live it to the fullest ❤
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Thank you! xo
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What a wonderful story! Isn’t it nice when you see your children truly valued in other areas of their lives? Tell Tash happy birthday!
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Thanks Ann, I will. 🙂
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Wow , the cake looks soo YUMMY and glad that the celebrations did not get affected by the rain 🙂 Tash(lovely and a unique name) looks to be really enjoying the celebrations and I can see why you are bursting with pride as a momma 🙂 So happy for your wonderful family Miriam 🙂 A happily ever after story unfolding right in front of me 🙂
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As always you’re so kind Minaxi. 🙂 Yes it was an enjoyable night and yes, I’m a proud momma even if my girl does sometimes drive me crazy! 🙂
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Haha. Who doesn’t drive one another crazy 😉 . But sometimes it’s the memories of the same craziness which makes them endearing to us on a later day 😊
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Looks like your daughter had a lovely day. The cake looks scrumptious! 🙂
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She did, thanks. 🙂
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Beautiful family! Love that cake too!! 😀
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Aw, shucks, thanks Robert. Wish I could take credit for making the cake but alas, it was a bought creation!
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🙂 If I were given that cake – regardless of who made it, I would be very happy. 🙂
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Yep, would probably help that cold of yours too. But hate to say it, it’s long gone!! 🙂
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Tragedy should be utilized as a source of strength. No matter what sort of difficulties, how painful experience is, if we lose our hope that other cakes will be made in the future, that’s our real disaster. 😉
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You make me laugh 🙂 Just what I needed this morning.
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Yay! My work here is done. 😀
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I’m so happy she had such a great birthday! She’s a lovely young lady, I can see why you’re so proud of her. 😀 You’ve done good, Mom, you’ve done good. 🙂
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Thanks Vanessa, you’re too kind. I do my best, like we all do and often worry about her future but no point in that a lot of it is up to her now. Hugs ♥ to you.
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*hugs* back dear one! ❤ I hope you're having a good day!
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It’s just starting here. 8.45am and I’m about to have my second cuppa, do some chores then head off to Zumba … hope your day’s been good Ness. 🙂
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It’s a lovely time of life full of hopes, dreams & future, Congratulations! Lovely, personal post as always xx
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Oh thank you, that’s sweet of you to say. xo
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Happy Birthday Tash 🎉🎉🎉
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Very kind of you Maja 😊
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❤
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