Today the sun shone a little less brighter
the flowers swayed with a little less fight
the birds sung with a little less might
because they heard
today my beautiful mum finally left this world.
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Today, after a well lived life of 88 years, and more than 17 months of suffering and pain, my mum’s battle and journey finally ended. Tonight my strong, brave, determined mum who fought so hard to her very last days, is finally at peace.
I was there when she took her final breath, together with my sister and my brother. As we held her hand and told her how much she meant to us, we thanked her for the life she gave us. We farewelled her to go meet our dad in heaven and all her Italian friends who passed before her.
We walked the journey with her to the very end and at 4.30pm today Melbourne time we saw her off at the gate. I felt blessed to be there with her as she sighed her final silent breath, this wonderful woman who taught me so much throughout my life and to her very last days.
Her pain and suffering has ended and I believe she’s gone to a better place.
Rest in peace my precious mum.
Tonight there is another angel in heaven.
To my fellow bloggers and friends who have been so supportive of me on this hard journey, I may be away from my blog for a little while as I focus my energies on my family, and helping to organise final farewells for mum. But I appreciate you all and will get back to reading your posts and replying to your comments when I can.
In the meantime, thank you all for reading and for being with me on my journey.
Sending you all light, love and happiness as we all continue on our road. Life is short and precious. Always remember to make the most of every minute of every day and never miss an opportunity to tell those around you how much you love them.
I’ll be thinking of you at this time…
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Thanks Simon.
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*hugs*
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Your tribute is beautiful. Mt heart is sad for you all. I hope it is of some comfort, that you were with her and saw her birth to a new life. I will remember you in my prayers.
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Thank you.
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sincere condolences
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Thanks Paul.
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Thinking of you Miriam and sending you and your family warm hugs. Take care of each other x
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Thank you so much. xo
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My thoughts are with you and your family, Miriam. Take care.
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Thank you.
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I’m so sorry for your loss.
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Thank you.
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Thinking of you Miriam. Beautiful post. x
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Thanks Louise.
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My thoughts are with you and your family Miriam. I know how hard it is to say goodbye to someone so dear knowing that she’ll be missed in this life but at least she’s at peace now, no more sufferings anymore. Condolence my friend.
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Thank you Amy. Yes, she’s at peace now and in a better place.
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My condolences to you and yours Miriam.
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Thank you.
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I’m so, so sorry for your loss. At least she’s no longer suffering and is at peace. Our thoughts are with you and your family. 😔
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Thanks so much. Yes, it’s a comfort to know she’s at peace now. xo
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Remember to take care of yourself through this. Thoughts are with y’all. 😊
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Thinking of you Miriam, and shedding a tear for you and after reading such a touching post- I am so sorry, hugs to you ❤ ❤
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Thanks so much Lisa. xo
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Oh Miriam, I have tears going down my cheeks reading this. I know how much your mother meant to you and how hard it was to see her suffer. I am so glad you were there holding her hand and loving her as she took her last breathe. It is a wonderful gift to say goodbye like that by her side. Thinking of you and your family. Xoxo
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You’re so right Nicole, it was a gift to see her out of this life and truly fitting. I felt blessed to be there with her, as heart breaking as it was. She is at peace now and that gives me great comfort. Thank you for your kind words my friend. xo
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I am very sorry for your loss. Wish strength and courage in this hard time ahead. Hugs
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Beautiful tribute.. my thoughts and prayers are with you..
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Thank you so much.
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I’m so, so sorry for your loss, dear Miri. I know you were as prepared as anyone can be to lose a parent and that all your good memories and your family will sustain you. Sending love ❤
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Thanks Diane and yes, as hard as it is I have a good support network around me and many wonderful memories of my beautiful mum. Hugs xo
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Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers xo
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Beautifully written. Sending you virtual hugs at this hard time. Take all the time you need to grieve.
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Thanks Joyce. Hugs (virtual and otherwise) gratefully accepted! xo
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My thoughts are with you and your family. May your mum rest in peace. I hope God gives strength to you and your family during this time.
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Thank you for your kind words.
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Hi sweetheart. The “right” words to say are all twisted up. So I’m going to wing it…
I’m glad she is at peace and with your dad. Can you imagine their reunion??
I love how you supported her til her last breaths. Bet that meant so much to her in ways we’ll never even know.
May healing light surround you in the weeks and months ahead. Especially on the days you may want to go see her, or on Sundays, when she’s sitting at the Heavenly table instead of your sister’s.
Lifting you high in positive thoughts and sending oodles of hugs and love. 💖
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Thank you dear friend for your beautiful and uplifting words. It’s a comfort to know mum’s suffering has ended and she’s finally at peace. Hugs to you. xo
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Hallelujah for peace. Love and hugs to you, Miri.
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So sorry for your loss Miriam and I do believe that she is at peace now. Thinking of you and your family at this time and sending love across the miles. xxx
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Thank you so much. Appreciate that. xo
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May you find the strength and comfort through this difficult time. God bless. Big hug!
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Thank you so much.
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So sorry to hear this, it’s so hard to lose a parent. Sending you love and hugs. xx
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It absolutely is Alba, but she’s in a better place now. Thank you. xo
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So very sorry for your loss, Miriam. Thank you for leaving us with the beautiful image of you, your brother, and sister seeing your Mum off on her next adventure to reunite with your Dad. Holding you all in Love and Light. xoM
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What a lovely comment, thank you! xo
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whew, what a bitter sweet time. I’m so sorry for your loss, but to have the suffering end is two edged piece of the story. I’ll keep you and your family in my prayers.
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Thanks Wendy. I truly believe mum is at peace now and in a better place. Her suffering has ended and that is great consolation. xo
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What a beautiful poignant post. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
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Thank you.
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Reblogged this on Unmeasured Journeys and commented:
Remember the stories I’ve shared with you that were written by Miriam about her beautiful mum?
Today I woke up to the news that her mum passed away.
Since you’ve been following along in Miriam’s journey, I thought you’d like to know.
Sending love and huge hugs to you, Miri…
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Thank you for sharing my story Jess and for your friendship. Love and hugs back! xo
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Hi sweetie. You’re welcome. Thank you for sharing your amazing mum with us.
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It’s my pleasure Jess. She was definitely a woman to be shared. Had so much to offer the world …
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I’m so thankful that she shared you with me! 🙂
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I’m the one who’s truly blessed. To have had her as my mum and through her to have met you. xo
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Awww. Also, what I truly love, is that by simply asking how she was all those months ago, she connected us! ❤️
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I’m so sorry for your loss Miriam. Sending lots of love to you and your family. ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤
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Thank you so much Niki. xo
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❤
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Close your eyes, I’m with you.
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Oh my goodness! I don’t know what to say…… hugs to you. Oh Miriam! lots of hugs and love sent to you xxxx ❤
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Thanks so much Daisy. xo
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❤ x
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Sending love to you and yours truly heavy hearted I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤ ❤ ❤
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Thanks Maureen.
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sure thing xoxo
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So sorry to hear this, Yes, there is another angel in heaven.
My prayers go out to you and your family. May your mother rest in eternal peace.
Hugs
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Thank you so much Andrew. I appreciate that very much. xo
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I’m so sorry Miriam. Hugs and prayers to you and your family.
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Thanks Alexis.
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So sorry for your loss… thinking of you and sending hugs. ♥
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My heart is holding you close today. So sorry for your loss.
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Thanks!
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Sending love and positive vibes your way, Miriam. xoxo
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Thank you xo
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Big Hugs to you …..
Her pain and suffering has ended and I believe she’s gone to a better place.
Rest in peace my precious mum.
Rest in peace to your beautiful mum, sorry for your lose… big hugs.
Regards Bella
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I am so sorry for your loss!
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Thanks Svet.
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Sending love, hugs, and warm embraces in the days ahead as you remember the loving mother you wrote of today. I don’t care how old we are; we always need our mother. I am saddened for your loss, but heartened she raised such a lovely, warm-hearted daughter, the one we’ve come to know here. Big hugs, Miriam. ❤
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Aw, what a beautiful thing to say, thanks so much Karen. I’m truly blessed to have had her as a mum. And you’re right, we always need our mother. Her passing, as grateful that I am that her suffering has ended, has left a void. xo
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Peace and love to you in the days to come. ❤
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Thank you Karen. That means a lot. ♡
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Oh Miriam. I’m so sad for you. Please know there are people all around the world who care and are wrapping you in their thoughts right now.
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And I’m so truly grateful. Thanks Carol. xo
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Miriam, I am sending prayers for your mother, and for you and your family, that whatever you may need during this time, you will find in abundance. Blessings and comfort to you, my friend. xoxo
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Thanks so much Lulu, appreciate your kind wishes. xo
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My heart is with you my friend. xo
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Thanks Nikki
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Sorry for your loss. Sending you lots of love x
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Thanks Anne
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Sending you love and light at this difficult time, Miriam. Take all the time you need and know you are in my heart, mind and prayers.
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Thank you so much Mandy. I know you understand. xo
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I am so sorry to hear this news. I’ll send you healing prayers and positive energy to get you through the days to come.
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Thanks for that Susie, appreciate your kind wishes. xo
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Sweet Miriam, sending you love from far away, yet I feel closer to you this day. May the memories shine brighter and your sorrow be brief. Take whatever time away that you need. Much love, Tiffany ❤️🙏🏽😘
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Thank you, my dear friend. I so appreciate your kind words. Hugs to you. xo
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Hugs back! 😘❤️
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I am sad to hear this news Miriam… I hope that you’ll find healing in your grieving. My heart is with you in this difficult time. Sending you my hugs dear friend…I’ll be praying for you and your family.❤
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You’re very kind Nina, thank you. xo
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Please know that I am here for you…always (despite the distance). **Hugs**
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Very sorry to hear this Miriam.
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Thank you Steve.
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Peace be the journey, until we meet again.
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Oh, Miriam, I am so sorry! I know your mom is at peace now, and her suffering has ended. And that there is indeed another angel in heaven and that she will always be looking out for you. Still, your loss is enormous and my heart truly bleeds for you. Please take all the time you need, and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers as you deal with this. When you feel like reconnecting to your blogging friends, we will be here. Until then, do what you need to do to deal with your grief. Blessings and peace to you, my dear friend!
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Thank you Ann and as you can see, I’m here sooner than expected, at least temporarily, finding respite and warmth amongst my kind blogger friends. It will be a hard week ahead but I’m fortunate to have a strong support around me … hugs and thanks to you Ann xo
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Thinking of you Miriam. x
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Aw, dearheart! I’m so sorry!! 😥 *hugshugshugshugs*
I’m praying so hard for you. <3<3
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Thank you so much my dear friend. xo Big hugs back.
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Keeping you in prayer and good thoughts, my sweet friend. *hugs* ❤
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