She was a pink haired, wonder lusting advocate for living life to the fullest. Forever inspiring me, and countless others, with her high spirited love of adventure and all things colourful, choosing magic and following her bliss.
For those who didn’t know her, Minaxi was a beautiful, unique individual who weaved her own brand of magic through her words and pics. Aside from her sparkling personality she was also an advocate for female rights (“wonder women” she called us) and equality for all, regardless of race, colour or creed.
One of her greatest gifts was her desire and passion to spread positivity and love. Despite battling her own demons of depression, especially this past year, Minaxi had a special ability to uplift and inspire others. She loved the man in her life Vishnu, she loved her friends and she loved her road trips.
That’s how I met her, through her blog here on WordPress HolidaysandHappilyEverAfters. We instantly connected and our friendship continued on Insta. We exchanged many texts and conversations and I considered her my friend.
When I heard the news today it guttered me. When I saw the photo of their happy smiling faces I was in shock. Minaxi, my vibrant, pink haired fellow adventurer, who waltzed with words and captivated me with her colourful images, was gone.
She’d left this world as she’d lived it, taking chances and living life to the max. She died with the man she loved.
I’m still barely comprehending how two young vibrant lives could be gone so instantly and tragically.
I never expected this and, like many others, am still trying to get my head around it.
Then an unexpected distraction.
From my kitchen I saw two magpies land on my decking. I haven’t seen any here for ages. As I stepped outside they looked at me and at each other. The timing was uncanny and I felt they were there for a reason.
I rushed inside to grab my phone but when I returned they were still there, as though waiting for me. They flew up on the roof and I captured a short video before they flew off.
They left me in tears yet with a profound sense of peace.
I looked up the symbolism of magpies and, with goosebumps, read that “seeing two magpies equals joy in union.”
So, amid this tragedy, I have to believe that Minaxi and Vishnu, you are both in a better place. I believe with my whole heart that you’re looking down on us and telling us you’re at peace.
Perhaps you’re telling us to live our dreams and not to wait until tomorrow to find our joy.
Or maybe you’re telling us to shine our light, just as you shone yours on the world you left behind.
Today it shines a little less brightly.
Rest In Peace my wonder lusting sparkling friend. You will be missed but never forgotten.
Just like the two magpies you’ve flown away, to the ultimate magical destination. May you forever shine your light from heaven.
In light and love 🙏
I read about this the other day. I am so sorry. Incredibly sad. Words aren’t enough.
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No, they’re not. Thank you Bryan.
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I heard about this incident last week during friends get together. I never knew her but had goosebumps reading your tribute. A very sad incident.
Keeping her family and friends in prayers.
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Thank you for your kind words. Yes, a very sad time.
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Miriam thank you for sharing this beautiful post. She sounds like she was pure joy. How tragic. I am sorry you have lost your friend. Re the magpie messengers. I’ve had two experiences with birds at funerals… so I know exactly what you are thinking. Take care xxx
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Thanks Louise. Ye, she was pure joy and I feel so blessed to have known her, even if just through our blogs and IG. xx
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I should have known you and Minaxi would have connected, too! I just wrote about her today as they are being laid to rest in California. She was such a cutie and so in love and today my heart is breaking…
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Yes, that’s how I feel too. Such heartbreaking news and it’s still hard to comprehend. Your post was a lovely tribute. xx
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Your post was too. They were just the cutest couple.
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They sure were. And she was one of a kind. 💕💖
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That is tragic…something we see all to much of in this world.
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I agree. Absolutely tragic.
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I did read about the incident, but I had never read or even knew about the HolidaysandHappilyEverAfters. Really sad that such young, beautiful people die such a meaningless death.
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So true, yet I’d like to think their lives had meaning. And perhaps there’s even a greater message here.
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Gosh! I think I followed her or remember checking her blog through another connection. It’s her pink hair that caught my attention. Really sad news. Travel can be so precarious as I’ve learned in the past few months. Stay strong, my friend. Sending you a tight hug! xoxo
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Thanks Cheryl. You’re right, travel can be very precarious can’t it. Take care and a big hug back xx
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A heartbreaking tragedy. Lovely tribute Miriam
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Thanks Drew, so sad.
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Miriam,
I’m glad I came here and read this post. The part about the magpies and the photos were comforting for me, so I can imagine the peace they brought you. May the memory of Vishnu’s and Meenakshi’s love and their love for life light up more lights in yours.
God bless.
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Thank you for visiting and reading. I’m glad you came here too. I’ve just read your post, which I could so relate to. I believe that our beautiful friends are at peace. God bless and hugs to you too. xx
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Miriam thank you so much for sharing this beautiful write up about your friend Minaxi and for sure she looks so vibrant and full of happiness from her lovely pic. She sounds like she was utter joy and so nice to be friends with her on WordPress. There is nothing to feel sad about but she had come to give happiness to all.
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Yes she certainly did bring happiness to all. And she will be sadly missed. Thank you for your kind words. xx
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Welcome Miriam and there are people like her who bring so much happiness.
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I am glad to hear the Magpies filled you with a sense of closure…may we all live this life to the fullest!!
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Yes indeed, they were a beautiful and timely sign. Thank you.
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I hope she would be pleased! https://vanessence.wordpress.com/2018/11/25/pinkpositivelight/
xoxox *hugs*
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She would be thrilled 💖🌸 Beautiful tribute. xx 🙏
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Thank you, Miriam. 🙂 I was hoping you would see. It helps, somehow, to “be” with other people who knew her too. *hugs* xoxox
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Miriam, I can’t believe I didn’t see this post before. I remember hearing about this on the news, and my family and I kept commenting on how tragic it was. I’m so sorry. I love that the magpies were out your window and gave you some peace. xo
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Thanks Jenny. It was such a sad time and I still think of Minaxi every now and then. Yes, the magpies landing was amazing. Goosebumps stuff. xo
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I found out about her while viewing different articles online. I was blown away by her over the top personality, I simply love it. I had a big smile on my face when I saw her beautiful pink hair. So uniquely beautiful. I truly hope she is at peace ya.
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Yes, Minaxi was a beautiful vibrant soul. Even though I didn’t know her personally I felt a closeness to her and I loved her over the top exuberant personality. I too hope and believe she’s at peace. Thanks for leaving a comment. 🙏
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You’re welcome, thank you for leaving her memory alive.
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